things just have to start and
the come up is hard,
and sometimes it is better if im moving.
it depends on how much I swallow.
I remember the agreement
was to not be a
martyr.
new moon in taurus
learning to relax
via looking at Bulgarian maps,
tracing the Maritsa river to
a point of death, ice,
collapse.
the breath of a little girl
laughing, her fingers
on my sleeve, grabbing
then shoving me.
“the little girl”
“After great pain, a formal feeling comes–”
it’s in front of the Christmas tree,
one week before you die,
alone and panicked by the
thought of mustering
staring at white frosted
plastic pine dotted with
uniform red balls
when I feel it.
it’s like cement cracking.
the ornaments of my childhood
all gone, lost
with my yearbooks and the
oil painting of mom
taken by the asbestos garage,
poverty; my enslaver.
i’ve been writing this for you
for about ten years
waiting for the day I’d be
by your bed to read the ending.
the bargaining begins.
(it’s just one breath)
this is where the poem begins.
- (dad)
and I think
I may be a masochist,
an undervalued trait of mine.
you are about five neighborhoods
away reading this and I
am heart felt, knee sunk
in one lost picture;
black and white snapshot
of the first rollercoaster I rode.
my father accompanied me,
and recalling when he went too
fast on the jet ski
knocking us both into the water,
two booming laughs,
neither of us really scarred.
it is the drugs that got us,
the suicide,
the dementia,
there’s nothing left.
but I held your hand in earnest
and exchanged a look.
I didn’t hug you during the
pandemic.
I try not to think
of these acts of
care as anything but that
but inconsolable,
bereft,
heavy cement cracked,
it comes for me as
failure.
- (sadist)
I tell them,
I am not writing about the men
you see unless it’s
my
dead dad
and
my
dead brother.
abandonment?
who me?
wearing my father’s knit
NY Giants cap and
bereaving, stripped,
replaying the final moment:
hand held, eye contact,
the knowing I had and decision
to forgo a flowery speech.
elision.
the last thing my father and I ever
said to each other was
I love you
before I left,
palms on the linoleum,
sobs held,
bargaining,
one more Christmas.
it’s brevity a poet seeks.
- (love)
and i think I may be
interminably detached from anyone
not blood,
but that ain’t the half of it.
y’all should know,
(so I’m writing it)
I don’t stand a chance against the curse
but I jump
once I hear the word
run.
to try.
I have never abandoned anyone.
“This is the Hour of Lead –
Remembered, if outlived,
As Freezing persons, recollect the Snow –
First – Chill – then Stupor
– then the letting go –”
–Emily Dickinson
IV. (home)
walking
demanding morning study.
it is strengthened so much so
that what has woken me is
an old phrase you said to me.
I could hear you fumbling with it;
an act of reflection while in stalemate.
how long can obstinacy maintain the
buoyancy of flight?
I am learning to stay fresh and put
and you are summarizing yourself
with an inaccuracy that doesn’t
need me yet.
I heard you rereading it one morning
to yourself, no doubt
questioning your word choice
as I stretch, be careful what you
say.
but I know what you meant.
and I know what you like.
there are rules to this though.
“the act of naming things”
I spend half a day entranced;
don’t ask a leopard what she thinks about.
We know it’s movement she is tracking,
the promise of of blood in her
mouth.
I stare at my reflection reminded of my mother;
the quiet strength,
the affectation of it,
the looming sunset
in the rear view,
the sadness in some women.
They said god doesn’t give curses
but I’ve seen twenty thousand deaths
and my own
in a single burst
so tell me about perspective.
It all started when I was five and he bent me over and said
here’s what it’s like
to fuck a man
I set the example of
safety in malice.
what do I deserve?
what is fair?
Yes.
Do you trust your guides?
Yes.
Do you trust what has to be done?
Yes.
I can set an example of
safety in malice.
I am a compressed rage
expanding into method,
I am big like sun rays,
just as far but
warm
“cancer in the 12th house”
if you asked me where I was,
stopped me on a street corner,
I would blink my big owleyes as if I just woke up,
not be able to answer fast enough,
you’d be surprised to learn,
I’m local.
you can live anywhere
as long as its not in your body.
even Philadelphia, even
Kensington, the first neighborhood
I arrived to.
I tattooed her name
on my arm to never
forget where I came from;
the city that unsheathed
me to beat me with it’s
black ice and corners.
she turns to me again and
says, I implore you,
for me,
do you like
warnings or do
you like to drown?
and feeling myself a
smirking fox,
traipse the town in
pink chiffon, I spit on the
floor and I say:
I don’t know
why don’t you just
fucking surprise
me?
“Lilith”
I begin to grow,
unfurl, hum
softly.
5.
it’s all the same poem;
me losing something
and later, not
remembering anything
as I fall into the dementia
and I think,
some things are hereditary
and some things are a wash
before they arrive.
I wish I would have saved
my dead dog’s hair brush,
my dead cat’s mouse,
some pictures of my friends,
my childhood house
before it crumbled from
the moisture, the squirrels,
the rats and us;
wish I saved anything to
do with us,
I think as I erase
our conversation.
when i’m old I want to be
confused about what shook me
most.
you end up counting pennies
at the end,
penurious again
wrapped in pewter
mansion. you’re lost
in a giant house
with a giant yard
by a giant lake you
swear contains an alligator,
a few dogs and cats,
a room lined with books,
a nurse to remind you not
to eat your sweater
and dreams of sons,
or daughters if they’ll have
me, and us. trying to
remember us.
“Grief part 6”
You said things
take sacrifice and I
agreed.
We were giant and we
both would shrink
to fit inside a
cavity that would carry us
back to each
other.
You always proposed
the meeting place
and I always proposed
the time.
We both loved
compromise and we both
understood sacrifice.
I promised you sometime
in eternity and you
promised me somewhere
on Earth.
“The gauntlet”
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